Are you unsure about what gifts you and your new husband will want and need? Are you too busy to even think about it? Many engaged couples share this confusion. Many department stores, jewelers, and gift and specialty shops help by providing a free bridal registry service for engaged couples.

First, you and your fiancé should decide where you want to register your gift preferences and which preferences you want to register. As you try to find a balance between your tastes in styles, colors and moods, consider this a great opportunity to practice communication and decision-making as a couple. Envision the kind of beautiful, well-stocked home in which you’ll start your life together.

Next, schedule appointments with the stores you have selected. Careful registration can take several hours so plan accordingly. Many stores employ gift consultants who will help you make your final gift selections and keep track of the gifts purchased for you. In order to accommodate all pocketbooks, select gifts in various price ranges. You also can select a few “high ticket” items such as a microwave, DVD or TV, as they make great group gifts.

Be sure to specify the manufacturer, pattern, quantity, size, and color of your various selections. Registering soon after your engagement will give family and friends the opportunity to purchase gifts for pre-wedding functions such as your engagement party and showers, as well as birthdays, holidays and even future anniversaries. You should inform them of your registry locations as soon as you make your selections and indicate your registry locations on shower invitations.